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#150 : Friendship, Relationship and the What Nots
Tuesday, September 21, 2010 @ 9:18 PM
Sometimes I feel that relationships whether its to do with chat friends normal friends classmates or colleagues. All these relationship-wise seems so very fragile. Something that I learn while chatting at Alamak. Everyone have to learn to cope with their friends' habitual lives, their characters and their attitudes. It may seem easy at first. Once you did something wrong or stupid you get blacklisted already.
No matter how you change or you wanted to change, all is not important cos the other party may not accept you and even thought bad of you even though you didn't do anything wrong.
There's all kinds of relationships in Alamak. Even freelancers are getting popular in there due to the Gary Ng thingy..
I used to have a best friend in school though but due to some matter we are not really best friends anymore everyone has their own personal lifestyle. Actually I wanted to care about, but all is gone now. To me, best friends or close friends will get lead on to become enemies cos you know too much of the other party's secrets having been with them each and every single day.
I don't like the whole idea of what they are all having in Alamak like prejudices against each other. I can't say that I hated anyone in there. Just dislike only. That's enough. Don't really had to think of anything else. Just don't care about what they talk about you.
Even if they are having events or gathering they shouldn't allow 2 people who dislike each other to appear at the same place. It's a real big MISTAKE! Even if confirm nothing will happen, in the end SOMETHING will happen! It always will. 99.9% something will definitely happen.
I rather be normal friends then to have best or close friends. At the very least no one knows deep down I actually have a dark secret. No one will believe it either. ( I guess. ) Only told a few people about it. Not even 10% of my total friends knows about it.
